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3rd Concept

"When we give our trusted servants a job, we must adequately describe (instruction) to them the job we want done, and we must provide them with the support they need to complete their job." 3rd Concept

Instruction and support are words used to describe the relationship between the  group (we) and  the trusted servant.
A trusted servant may think that you (part of the we) are "trying to be the boss", or that you  "want to run stuff" when you  "adequately describe" what needs to be done to complete an assigned task.

Relationship or Hostageship

Is your relationship a hostageship?  Healthy relationships or hostage taking incidents come in various shapes and sizes with an unlimited number of variables and manipulations. Hostage takers are completely self absorbed, selfish, and they simply don't understand why their hostages can't accede to their demands.
 
Ask yourself: Are you hiding in the relationship so you don't have to face the reality of being on your own? Don't stay with someone because it's comfortable and safe.

Energy Drinks

Are energy drinks ok?